If you are a great winner,no one will be jealous of you,but admiring you instead. If you are the pretender and just appear to be better than most of the people when the fact is you only win in small occasion,no doubt people will be jealous of you because they think you are just too cocky and they too can be better than you.
It just seems that you are not so a great winner to them. People don't just despise you for your so-called achievement, people despises you for pretending you achieved something. Quit your insecurity of people's jealousy and stop finding excuses to convince yourself that people despises you because you are too perfect for them.
And,just in case you didn't notice,you should mirror yourself and probably you will find out that you are just the same as the others. There is a chance part of you are just as selfish and as jealous as you had mentioned. You are just jealous of others who are least successful but apparently more likeable than you. Thus,you go all the way defending yourself for not being accepted by others because they are just jealous of you.
Lastly,continue your effort to be a true winner that wins people's admiration. No one will take anything away from what you really achieved or contributed by simply being jealous.
A true winner wins people's admiration by action.
A pretender wins only jealousy by talking.
p.s. I do not intend to make myself look mighty or holly by just writing this post. I wrote this for you to reflect back on yourself. Everyone needs to reflect themselves at certain point in their life.
Come on,you are just like me,human. Selfish,jealous and disgusting as you mentioned. Yes, I am selfish,jealous and disgusting because I'm a human too. And you said human nature is selfish,jealous and disgusting. I guess you are selfish,jealous and as disgusting as those who criticized you. If you say you are not,good for you then. Perhaps I should look up to you as my prophet or maybe my next generation will be praying at your feet as the holly god.
You can say I should judge myself before judging and criticizing others. I learned my lessons and reflected myself in my life. I WAS a cocky and immature person and at the same time I AM cocky and immature. That's human. A human reflects himself/herself and changes but can never be perfect.
Lastly,there's no fucking need for me to win the whole world's heart to be with me against you by just simply writing this. I do not need to win people's heart,but I intend for people to follow my heart. If they do not accept my mistakes or attitude or opinions,fine for me. I accept their opinion.
BUT YOU? Trying your fucking best to win people's heart and at the same time criticize those who do not accept you and jealous of you by finding excuses for your flaws. People ONLY criticizes you for a reason. You don't get an echo if the wall doesn't reflect.
Seriously,if you could just ignore others' jealousy of you and reflect on your high and achievement in your life,you will be much happier. I believe there's always friends to share those high and joy with you. More importantly,you should really judge and reflect yourself. There's no need to be fuss over others' criticism of you if you are right by your own right. Why goes writing status and post to vent your frustrations of others' criticism of you? It just led people to know there's people who criticize you and MOST importantly, let those who criticized you to continue criticizing you.
p.s. Honestly,put the villain tag on me because I believe you had one yourself too. =)
